For weeks if not months, our living room resembled a battleground of littered toys and books. Tiny flecks of green, blue, and red play-dough stuck to the carpet. The coffee table hid beneath a miniature pet shop with its dozen or so of tiny inhabitants, as well as pieces of paper featuring various scribbles, crayons, etc. Dust bunnies huddled around the corners of the room. Big shoes and little shoes, big balls and little balls, and a bunch of deflated balloons from Trader Joe's scattered across the entry way. We finally decided this weekend that the mess was unbearable and tidied up the living room and vacuumed the carpet. Ah, much better, as long as you do not look at the dining room, or the bathroom.
Families with small children and no maids probably all have living rooms resembling ours. It's not sheer laziness that leads to such state of disorder. We learned in high school physics that entropy is the eventual fate of the universe, that naturally things gravitated toward randomness. Having order takes energy, and that's something that is highly lacking in parents of young children. We are lucky if we get to eat or sleep, or have a brief moment for ourselves. Cleaning up the room comes low on the list of things to do.
It turns out that being overweight also can be due to the lack of energy. The body does its best to run its essential functions but has not enough energy to take care of the garbage, like useless fat. Also, the body does not function properly, so that when it is given food, it makes junk like fat instead of good stuff like blood, muscles, and energy.
Wait a minute, isn't obesity due to excessive energy or calorie intake? We all learned in medical school that the problem of obesity can be explained by the following equation:
excessive energy intake - inadequate energy expenditure= fat
It sounds simple enough, but is it really true? Probably not, or else why are there so many people struggling with their weight?
Mr. Alex Wu of The User's Manual for Human Body pointed out in his book that obesity is actually caused by the lack of energy, the lack of xie-qi, or life force. Putting on excess weight signifies a decline in health or life force. How is that so? When you think about it, the extra fat on one's thighs, abdomen, or butt, is it really stored energy, or is it useless junk? Useless junk, no question about it. How did it get there in the first place? Was it really due to our body thinking: oh, let's deposit some highly valuable fat globules in the tummy to guard against a rainy day? Or is it more like: gee, I'm running low on fuel so I'll just dump this crap right here; I'll clean it up some other time. It's more like the latter, I'll bet.
Do you know what TCM calls excessive fat? Fat belongs in the general realm of garbage in the body. Traditional Chinese Medicine call all such garbage tan, which literally means mucous or phlegm. Fat is a special type of mucous, it's tan shi, which means wet mucous in literal translation. Yup, it ain't no energy store, that's for sure. From the TCM point of view, people accumulate excess fat because their organs do not function properly. When they eat, they convert the food ingested into excess fat instead of into useful energy for the body. Such people actually suffer from the lack of xie-qi, or life force. Obesity is the result of poor heart and digestive function.
Yes, contrary to what most of us believe, obesity is the result of heart disease, not the other way around, and obesity is due to poor digestion and inadequate energy production instead of just excessive calorie intake. How can that be? Well, our heart's main function is to pump good oxygenated blood to all our body parts and used up blood through our lungs and livers and kidneys to get freshened up. If this central pump and its pipes, the blood vessels, are not in their best shape, then circulation declines and lots of junk get left behind in our tissues instead of being taken away to waste-processing plants of our body: the liver and the kidneys. That's how I think about it.
What about poor digestion? People have the impression that overweight folks have too good a digestive system, and therefore absorbs too much energy which gets converted into fat. Well, they actually suffer from poor digestion and the lack of nutrients, especially the ones that are dieting. When healthy people eat, they convert whatever food they eat into useful parts for the body, such as building blocks for muscle, new blood cells, useable energy source, etc. When overweight people eat, for some reason the food gets turned into useless fat. Something went wrong in the conversion process where food is supposed to turn into stuff that sustain, nurture, and renew us, not to weigh us down.
In TCM, there's a disease state called strong stomach-weak spleen. People with strong stomach but a weak spleen have great appetite and can put away a lot of food, but they don't get much out of it. Such people can be overweight or overly thin, because they cannot convert the food they eat into useful muscle mass. The spleen in TCM functions mainly to aide digestion and create new blood, so a weak spleen means a poorly operating power supply for the body.
How do people get weak spleens? There are lots of ways to do so. Poor eating habits certainly play a major role. Here in the U.S., motherland of fast-food, not only are people eating the wrong things, they are eating it the wrong way too, which is fast. Fast-eating folks gobble down the food in seconds without even chewing much, usually because they are busy doing something else like watching TV, surfing the internet, driving, on the way to the next errand. Giant pieces of food get dumped into their stomach, which is supposed to grind them up into smaller pieces so they can be properly digested. No such luck for the stomach. Too busy reading, watching, driving, not enough blood to go to the stomach, sorry you are on your own. So the stomach dumps the slightly smaller, but still huge pieces of food into the small intestines, which can't do much about them because small intestines digest food on a molecular level, not giant piece level. Where do they go next? The pieces of burger or fries? The large intestines, where they get converted into poop. Story over. End result of fast-eating? Lots of poop get made, very little useful energy gained.
So slow down! Whether you are eating burgers and fries, or a salad, chew what you eat so you can get something useful out of it instead of putting your poor digestive system on a run-around and waste precious blood-energy pushing all that undigested food through your system. Don't do anything else when you eat! Just eat, enjoy the food. It's one of the most basic pleasures of life, eating, don't treat it like a hassle or inconvenience. Give you and your food some quality time together, and afterwards do some relaxing activities like taking a slow walk or listening to some nice music to help your stomach digest. Don't hit the gym or pick up a book or turn on the TV. All these activities divert blood flow away from the stomach when it needs it the most. Be nice to your stomach and spleen. They work hard to keep you running.
Okay so how do we lose weight? Well, we don't want to lose weight, not healthy weight anyway. We want to keep all the good stuff like blood, muscles, bone mass, and lose the bad stuff like the fat clogging up our blood vessels and suffocating our heart. Losing useless fat is easy and hard. Easy because there are no special requirements, no strenuous exercises needed, no expensive diets, no drugs. Hard because we have to change some lifelong habits. Ready?
Step Number One: sleep well.
Sleep early and sleep plenty. That is the most basic change you need to make if you want to become more healthy. See my previous post on early sleep. Sleep heals us, restores our energy, allows our body to make repairs, and help to produce more blood-energy or life force, which is so vital in maintaining our health. If you have abundance life force, no illness, including obesity, can touch you, so start building it up by going to bed early, the earlier the better. Before 10 pm is the best if you can manage that, and you can if you really want to make that change. You will feel so much better in a week or two.
Step Number Two: eat well.
What? What about the excess calorie stuff? Forget it. Eating keeps us alive. Do not deny your body the food it needs. To lose fat, we need to increase our metabolism, and that takes a lot of energy. Eat regular meals, especially a really tasty nutritious breakfast. Never skip breakfast, or else your metabolism will slow down and that causes more fat buildup. Eat slowly and chew carefully so your body can digest every morsel and extract maximum energy out of it. Stop eating when you feel full. That is the key. Do not eat because you are bored or sad or upset. Eat because it's time to eat and you feel hungry. Referring back to our body's schedule, the Flow and Infusion of energy, we can see that the best time for breakfast is 7-9 am, lunch around 12 pm, and dinner around 7 pm. Those are the times when our digestive system work the best. Again, morning is the best time to eat the good stuff because our digestive system is at its peak. Lunchtime is good too, but do not eat a huge dinner, because as evening approaches, our body winds down to get ready for bed, so a large dinner means a lot of half-digested food in the stomach when you sleep. Not only does that cause heart-burn, it puts extra burden on the heart and can even cause heart attacks. A light dinner with mostly vegetables is best.
Remember we want to increase muscle mass (our heart is a muscle too) and decrease fat production, so eat lots of high quality proteins like lean beef/lamb, shrimp, eggs, beans, etc. Eat plenty of vegetables and fruits. Nuts and seeds are good too. Do avoid simple starches (white bread, pasta, rice, any form of sugary food/drink) as these encourage our body to synthesize more fat. Avoid salty foods too, those can cause fluid overload and are bad for your heart.
Cut out the fried and greasy stuff, and also cut out the iced drinks, sugary or not. These all hurt our digestive system and our heart. Forget them. When hungry, please do not grab a candy bar, that's not food. Nor is Hot Cheetos or anything in that whole isle. Eat whole grains, fresh produce and meats/dairy as much as possible, and eat at home as much as possible. A lot of people think only wealthy people can afford to eat healthy. That's so wrong. The poorest people on this planet eat healthier than we do because they can only afford what's local and fresh, nothing processed. Eating out is one of the most expensive habits that can wreck your budget; it can cost literally hundreds and even thousands of dollars per month. Even fast-food gets expensive if you get it regularly. So save that money and cook and enjoy your meals at home with your family.
Step Number Three: be happy.
Unhappiness, brooding, stress all hurt your body, your heart and digestive system in particular. Brooding injures the spleen and stomach, so don't keep that stress inside of you. TCM says: "hundred illnesses arise from the heart". Keep yourself happy, then your whole body will stay healthier. Let go of all those non-essential things that keep you worried or stressed. Be grateful and appreciate all that you have. Keep your wants and needs simple and few.
What about exercise? Aren't we suppose to burn the calories? Yes, but the body knows how to do that by itself. It'll take out the garbage if you give it enough rest and nourishment. Keep in mind that the good stuff: bones, blood, muscles weigh more than fat, so don't weigh yourself everyday, or at all! It's how you feel and what size clothes you can fit into that matters. In fact, one can gain weight or look bigger in the process because the fat that's been hanging around for months or years need to be broken down in order to be taken away, and whenever the body engages in this breaking down process, the body part that's involved can look bulkier. Be patient and let your body do the work. Just take good care of it, and it will take good care of you.
There are exercises that we can do to help the body along. Mild, enjoyable exercises like walking can strengthen our heart and lungs, refresh our blood, and encourage muscle growth. It can also improve our appetite and sleep. So do go for a walk and enjoy the beautiful spring weather. Avoid strenuous exercise or any exercise that your body does not want to do. The body has to enjoy it too for your to reap any benefit of the exercise. Remember a lot of overweight folks have weaker hearts, so vigorous exercise is not a good idea. We need to build up energy, not using up a lot of energy torturing ourselves.
In addition to walking, there are several simple exercises you can do to help let go of the fat. One is walking on your knees, which I talked about in a previous post. Another is to massage the belly, or anywhere you have unwanted fat. This increases circulation to that area and help the body take out the garbage. Belly massage is simple: use your hands, palms, fingers, thumbs, or fists, up to you, and start from your stomach, just below the ribs, and work down to the belly button or the pelvic area. Use how every much pressure that feels good to you. Do this for a few minutes before sleep and after awakening. This will not only help you get rid of fat in the abdomen, but also help take care of other chronic problems. It also helps to improve quality of sleep. If you feel gas bubbles or rippling water in the belly, good! Push that stuff out. You don't want that gas or stagnant water in your belly. If you feel pain or lumps, gently massage them away. See your doctor if you feel any lumps that do not move or go away. If you happen to have constipation, you can also gently tap your waist using your fists while lying down, about 100-200 times before sleep. This will get your bowels moving and get rid of all that poop that's weighing you down. (Do not do if pregnant.)
Remember, we don't want dirty air (gas), stagnant water (edema), or accumulation of poop inside of us. Massaging the belly will help get rid of these disease-causing garbage, and fat! Farting or burping are great ways to let out the dirty air, so don't hold it in! Let it out, just do it with discretion while in public.
There's one more exercise, simple one too. Hit yourself in the outer thighs, which happen to be where our gallbladder meridian runs through. What the heck is the gallbladder meridian? Meridians and pressure points are the coolest things in TCM. I will devote more time to them in another post. Briefly meridians or channels form a huge network, kind of like the human internet, that sends information between our organs and coordinate their functions. They run along distinct lines found on every human body, and along each meridian are specific points that are more sensitive to pressure, temperature, and pain. These points are the very ones that acupuncturists use to help relieve pain or rebalance the patient's organs. They, in very few words, are our god-given tools to heal ourselves. They are the very medicines that we are born with! I believe everyone should know about them so that everyone can start healing themselves.
Let's get back to the gallbladder meridian. The gallbladder stores bile, which helps us digest fat. Lots of people eat and love eating, but are not really digesting all that well, like we discussed above. Stimulating the gallbladder meridian will stimulate our body to produce ample bile to help us digest and turn food in to energy that helps us gain muscle and lose fat. This exercise will also release a lot of what I call emotional/psychological garbage because our liver takes a hit whenever we get angry or stressed. The liver in turn dumps its garbage on the gallbladder, so there are lots of emotional garbage building up along our thighs. Hit them and get them out of there! How do you do it? Place your foot on the sofa, a chair, or the bed, so that you can easily reach your outer thigh without bending your back. Use your fist, preferably the knuckles, and hit your outer thigh firmly in four evenly spaced points, starting from your butt and work toward your knees. Where you hit doesn't matter as long as you stay in the middle of the outer thigh. You should feel a sharp line of pain running through the middle of your outer thigh: that's the gallbladder meridian getting jolted. Repeat this 50 times on each thigh (so 200 hits). It should take about 5 minutes. You can also do a little here and a little there if you don't have time to finish in one session. Don't do this if you are pregnant or having your period. (Pregnant women secret bile just fine, and having the period already takes a lot out of you.) Don't do this after 11 pm because you should be sleeping, also because doing this late can keep you awake and cause insomnia. If insomnia becomes a problem (because the emotional garbage has been disturbed), pat yourself gently in the back of the head, neck, and back (use the wall or a soup spoon if no one can pat your back for you) before bed. Doing so will activate the bladder meridian which runs along our backside and help release all that garbage so you can sleep better.
One more thing, try not to sit in front of the TV or computer for too long. TCM says sitting too long causes us to lose our muscles. Looking at things for too long causes us to lose blood (not literal bleeding, but the using up of too much energy). Remember we want more muscle and blood, so keep the screen time under control (like less than 2 hours per day).
All that sounds easy right? It should be easy. The human body is smart. Just help it get rest and nourishment, and it will take care of the rest.

